Latex Curiosity: Where to Start (Without Overthinking It)

Are you a latex lurker?

Go on - admit it. You’re curious.

Maybe you dismissed latex at first because that felt like the acceptable response. But over time - and this is a big but - you’ve found yourself increasingly drawn to it. The curiosity keeps nudging you. And now you’re wondering where on earth you’d even start… or what your partner, friends, or family might think.

Here’s the thing though: this starts with you.

Owning your interest - without apology - is the first step. Curiosity doesn’t require justification.

Over the years, anything described as “different”, “out there” or “too much” has usually turned out to be someone being true to themselves. Fashion history proves this time and again. What’s once considered niche often becomes mainstream later on. Even Adidas has produced latex-inspired ranges (latex-coated fabric rather than the real deal - when you know, you know).

Simply owning what interests you makes you feel stronger in yourself.

People who mock, judge or pull others down for doing something different are often operating from fear - worrying about what others think, or avoiding doing the inner work themselves. Colluding with someone else’s limitations helps no one - not you, not them, and not anyone around you.

I know this isn’t always easy. I’ve had to take this stance in my own life too - including with my son, which I reference in another blog post here. So yes, I get it.

But if you’re ready to gently explore latex - and avoid repeating my own very early, very unsuccessful attempt - let’s talk about starting in the right way.

First things first: keep it simple

If you know someone who already wears latex, talk to them. Ask questions. Watch how they approach it. YouTube and Instagram are also brilliant places to see how people wear latex in real life - not just in high-drama photoshoots.

That said, latex isn’t cheap, and this is important to say upfront.

Cheap latex doesn’t last.

Be wary of ultra-cheap imports - false economy every time.

Well-established brands like Libidex and Westward Bound are respected for good reason. You can buy “off the shelf” pieces based on their sizing charts, and both regularly offer sales and discounted promotions.

If new latex isn’t within reach right now, pre-loved platforms like Vinted or eBay can be a brilliant place to start. I’ve bought lots of my latex this way - and love it.

Looking for affordable latex? Browse my pre-loved pieces in the shop.

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What should you start with?

Not a catsuit.

I know - it’s tempting. But trust me on this.

My first successful pieces were simple: leggings and a sleeveless V-neck top. With dressing aid (and Lord G’s help - which continued for some time), it gave me a feel for how latex moves, fits and feels.

Catsuits are wonderful, but they’re also:

• more expensive

• more technical to get into

• more demanding in terms of fit

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Start with separates - leggings, skirts, tops, simple dresses - and build up from there.

Dressing aid & care (the unsexy but essential bit)

Latex needs care - and it rewards you for it.

Good dressing aids include Vivishine or BGloss. Talc is also commonly used, though it requires extra cleaning and polishing afterwards.

After wearing latex:

• rinse in warm water with a specialist latex product or a tiny amount of washing-up liquid

• rinse again

• allow to dry fully

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We store ours hanging in garment bags, away from light. Direct sunlight degrades latex and causes fading, so storage really matters.

And one golden rule: never use body lotions or oils on your skin before wearing latex - they damage it.

Latex isn’t a cheap hobby, and it does require care - but with the right approach, you can build a beautiful collection that lasts for years.

A little joy to finish

My first catsuit may be long gone, but these days I have a red one, a black-and-red one, a gold one, plus a growing collection of leggings, tops, skirts and dresses.

There’s nothing quite like finding a new piece - whether it’s a half-price Libidex gem or a surprise Vinted bargain. One recent find even led to a £1.50 metallic blue wig from a charity shop… and a whole new batch of joyful content.

Dressing up isn’t just for children.

Latex makes it special.

If you’re latex-curious, I’d love to know what’s drawing you in - and if you already wear it, what was your first piece?

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